Friday, April 27, 2012

Family visits

The weekend before Easter, my family and I made a trip to Johnson City, TN, to see David's extended family. It was Amelia Jayne's first car trip longer than an hour. It should typically take about 3.5 hours, but due to a nursing baby and a mostly-potty-trained little boy, it took us about 5 hours. No worries. We made some nice stops and were fairly chill about the timing. We got to see David's grandmother (GG), his Uncle Richard and Aunt Janell, aunt Karen and uncle Mark, cousins KJ, Ame, JT and Shelby. Grandma, Grandpa and Aunt B (as Xander would call them) were there, too. :)

It was great! We don't get to see the Johnson City crew too often, so this was a nice trip. It was Amelia Jayne's debut trip to JC and her first time meeting most of the folks there. The weather was beautiful and Xander got to play at GG's park (it's funny to say that, but it really is her park as it was donated by her children in honor of her - so sweet, huh?). Xander played with JT and Shelby (they're 16 and 15 years old) a lot and they really had a good time. Fun!

GG loves her great-granddaughter



Aunt Janell

Aunt Janell and Uncle Richard

Playing ball in the house. Oh, Uncle Richard!



Last weekend my Dad and stepmom came to Mocksville from Nashville, TN, along with my Aunt Karen and Aunt Cheryl from Roanoke, VA. We headed up to Mocksville for the day and got to hang with them. It was great! We stopped and got some sandwiches and then headed to the park for a gorgeous day of eating, playing and visiting. That afternoon the guys went back to the house while the girls (Aunt Karen, Aunt Cheryl, Nana, Erin, Kaitlyn and I) minus Amelia Jayne, piled into the Prius (yes, you read that right!) and went shopping in downtown Mocksville. It was so nice to be with the girls, visit with the aunts whom I rarely get to see and enjoy a beautiful day of play, laughter and love. I can't wait for us to visit my aunts in Roanoke soon - I so enjoy their company and their sweet, loving and kind spirits. And I'm not just writing that because my Aunt Karen is my one and only avid blog reader. :) I really mean it! Love you, KTG!




Xander holding on to Aunt Cheryl - man he loves her!!

Siblings

Saying goodbye is so hard!



Tag

David bouncing the ball off his head - Xander's favorite move. :)


Nana and AJ


Precious.

Nice one, Granddaddy!

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Easter 2012

I'm so late with this, and I still don't have all the pics I want to share. Oh well.

Saturday, April 7, we headed to Mocksville to celebrate Easter with mine and David's families. I forgot my camera, so my mom has all those pics. Oh well.

David did get a video of the Easter egg hunt and made it very fun (using iMovie). Amelia Jayne slept through the Easter egg hunt, so you won't see her anywhere. Oh well.


It was so fun being with our families, celebrating Easter and our risen Lord and Savior! This is probably my favorite holiday to spend with my family. I love it so much! And Christmas. And birthdays. And Halloween. And fourth of July. Okay, so I love them all. But they're so much fun!

Pardon the quality of these pics, which were taken with my phone, since my camera was at home.

We had our own egg hunt at the house. Here are some pics. I forgot Amelia Jayne's bow. Oh well.

Xander insisted on wearing pajamas for his nap and then didn't want to change out of them for the Easter egg hunt. Oh well.
So now you know that my life isn't perfect. Oh well.
But it's oh so fun! :)

Thursday, April 12, 2012

National Library Week

In honor of National Library Week I thought I would write a post regarding libraries.


I recently found an email that my then-supervisor, Tony Tallent, sent. He had challenged everyone in the outreach department to think of what a library means to them. This was in 2007 - I had been working for the library for 18 months.

Challenge:
Sometime in the next week, take at least 15 minutes to look up as many different definitions, ideas or philosophies about what LIBRARY means. Through that process formulate your own meaning, definition or philosophy for LIBRARY. How would you convey your own idea of LIBRARY to someone else? However works best for you to convey this is the right way (write it, sing it, draw it?).



Responses:

What is a library, you ask?
A library is a focal point of the community. I looked up focal point in the dictionary and this is what I found: “the point at which all elements or aspects converge; center of activity or attention.” Isn’t that what we want? To offer such great programs, opportunities and information that people converge at the library? But where is the library? The library is everywhere. We aren’t just four walls, a floor and a ceiling. The library is in the community. We are in the daycares and the senior centers, the schools and the businesses. The library leaves a wake in its path where the whole community can benefit. When someone is new to our city, seeks information, or is in need, they can come to us. We offer such a variety of services. Yes, we have books and videos, but we have so much more! We offer programs for every age, every race, every gender, every background, and most importantly, every seeking person. We even go beyond this, though, and strive to not only reach those who seek us, but those who are in need. We are passionate about our community to the point that we want every child to have a library card, every new mother to have a book for her baby, every senior citizen to benefit from our services, even by mail! We care enough to go into the community; we don’t just wait for the community to come to us.
-E. Little

Have you ever toured a model home and heard a room described as flex space? It might be the bonus room over the garage, an extra bedroom, or some other space that can be configured depending on various needs or desires. That’s what I picture in my head when I try to define library. A library is flex space. I’m not just referring to the physical environment of a library. This idea of flex space means we adapt and change, try new things, meet our users directly in the community. We’re flexible not just with our actual spaces, but with our programs and ideas as well. When we take a program out into the community, we’re creating that flex space right where the need exists. A library is flex space for the staff and the patrons. Visitors to the library can decide how much guidance they need from staff. Their experiences can be entirely self-directed or more structured. The choice is theirs. And the best part? One person’s experience doesn’t have to match anyone else’s. Individual and community needs are recognized and valued in this incredible, flexible institution we call a library.
- J. Hyatt

Library:  Quiet, calm, dusty, musty, Not!! Diversity, multicultural, lights, camera, action!  Busy, busy, busy! Whew what a great place to be.
- Y. Thomas

I have always had a reverent feeling for libraries. A library is just a building to some people, but not to me. I was the nerdy kid in school that loved library time and could browse for hours in the stacks. I equated finding a good book to finding treasure. I still do. I suppose I loved the feeling of losing yourself in a good book, and I have always loved being surrounded by books. All that knowledge just waiting to be soaked up…(sigh).



Now that Outreach is going outside of the four walls of the library buildings I recently redefined my perception of what a library is.


The library is portable knowledge.


I know that the library was already ‘portable’ as patrons could take the books with them, but now I’m talking about library services. When we go out in the community we are taking a piece of the library with us. I love how portable the library has become because I still get to be the nerdy kid who recommends her favorite books to people. Now I have the opportunity to be nerdy with a larger, more diverse group of people and it makes me very happy.
Library = portable.
- A. Craig

L earning information, experiences, languages, people, universe



I nfinite kingdom of experiments for humanity


B reaking the walls of ignorance


R ivers of opportunities to grow for all


A bides in the curious minds


R eason to believe in growth


Y es, oui, hai, ja, да, jawel, Sí for free thinking !!!


- I. Patterson

Childhood Memories,
My grandmother took us to the library every day, to hear stories and enjoy programs of all kinds at our small neighborhood branch. In my neighborhood we had wonderful Librarians who assisted you with any school work assignments or helped you take on adventure through movies or books. Once I reached Middle and High School it was the social place to meet friends, hang out and, most of all, it was a safe haven from city noise. Yes, I was one of those bad kids who pluck your nerves daily and stay in the library all evening, clowning around until someone asked me to become a volunteer.
This is a dream job, where I can now share the joy of reading to other children who secretly love books, to expose literacy to a hidden community which some have left behind in resources and lastly to continue growing in a career I love.


What is a library?


A library is a collection of information, sources and services used by people, body, institution or individual.


(The library is still a safe haven for homeless, lost teens, tired moms and grandmothers. The library is still a place where you can learn new skills, have adventure through books or various media.
- C. Ellington

families, couples, individuals, groups, students, teachers, toddlers…


I think of a place filled not only with books, but with people. Yes the library has computers, magazines, Cd’s, videos, etc,etc, but I think that in this world where people have less and less contact with each other, the library provides that contact with an individual. How many times have we heard of someone getting stuck on the phone, on an automated call, only wanting to talk to a person. The library for me means seeing a face of an individual that can lead you to the answer you are looking for. Having families come together at a story time program, getting together with your friends to study, and learning about crocheting with others or sitting next to your beloved while each reads their book or magazine. The library means having personal service, where an employee will go to a senior’s home to help them find lost (hopefully misplaced) materials, or fight traffic to reach those who do not step into the four walls of a building. Without people the library would simply be a bunch of dusty stuff.
- V. Corral

Libraries are more akin to organisms than they are to organizations. Organizations are impersonal, data-driven and structure-minded institutions. These are everything the library is not, or at least should not be. Libraries are alive with people that engage in human contact in order to facilitate knowledge. Transactions should be measure in the currency of improvement and enjoyment instead of that of numbers; structure is there as a means to an end- knowledge exchange- not as the driven force to preserve the status-quo.


At a day and age where people have become more disconnected from others, where the public is well-versed in factoids but suffer from true-knowledge deprivation, how wonderful it is to still have libraries that offer human and intellectual treasures to both those actively searching and to the lucky ones who are searched for.


There is this poem by the Spanish writer, Juan Ramón Jiménez. It would go something like this:

"What is poetry?", you ask me


whilst you pierce my pupil with your pupil of ocean blue.


"What is poetry? and YOU of all people want to know?


Poetry is YOU.


To borrow this concept and to use a bit of author's license, I could say:


"What is a library?


(skipping the romantic stuff)


The library is YOU.
-C. Farrell

I'm thankful to have the job that I have and even more thankful that I so thoroughly enjoy it! Thanks especially to my supervisor, Meryle Leonard, and my department co-workers, Veronica Corral, Dot Siler, Amy Kukla, Varanrat Torok, Connie Ellington, and Irania Patterson. There are so many others that I've worked with along the way who have influenced and guided me through. To name a few - Julie Ward, Geri Sponaas, Tony Tallent, Emily Nanney, Joy Scott, Wanda Williams, Linda Sherman, Angela Craig, Jason Hyatt, Darcy Patai.
To me, the library is you. :)
Much love to you all.

Friday, March 30, 2012

Encouraging

I was close to tears the other day as I read this article. It absolutely changed my thoughts on motherhood. Far too often I count the minutes and the hours without really appreciating things in the moment. Time does stand still when you stop counting the hours.

About AJ - Four and Five months

I kind of missed out on Amelia Jayne's four month post, so I decided to combine months four and five. She was five months on Saturday - can you believe it?!?! Me neither!

Amelia Jayne turned 4 months old on Xander's birthday, February 24. She had another doctor's appointment this month where she again got two shots and took an oral vaccine. I find the whole immunization scene to be much easier this time around. I guess I know it's for her own good and I've seen her brother go through it and survive. She really did well - she's such a trooper. Best.Baby.Ever. :)

Here are her four-month stats:

Weight - 15 pounds, 6 ounces (63%)
Length - 25.75 inches (78%)
Head Circumference - 16 inches (20%)

As compared to Xander's at four months:

Weight -  14 pounds, 1 ounce (34%)
Length -  25 inches (55%)
Head Circumference -  17 inches (76%)

She still has a petite little head! Oh, if only she had come first, perhaps a c-section could have been avoided. Oh well. :)

What's new with her? Well, she's a roller now. She's been rolling over for two months, but there was a period of time when I thought she'd forgotten that she could do it! It's not unusual now for me to go in her room after nap or in the mornings and find her on her stomach or laying sideways in the crib. She also likes to reach for things on her activity mat and will roll over or kick her little legs until she moves to get what she wants. I've left the room and come back to find her inches from where I left her. Mobility, here we come!

She's starting to sit now. Her bottom is still pretty round (as my mom would say) but she can keep her balance for about 15 seconds or so. I usually keep the boppy pillow (or C-pillow as Xander calls it) around her to cushion her fall when she tumbles over. :)

EVERYTHING goes in her mouth. Except a pacifier. She still won't take one of those. But she loves to suck on her hands, toys, blankets, your fingers, chin, shirt...pretty much anything she can get her hands on. Xander wasn't as much like that, so this could be interesting. :) She actually prefers to suck on fabric. And she loves to have her blanket up by her face when she sleeps. Oh and watch out - she loves to give kisses, the sloppy kind. :)

She is still nursing well with no need to supplement formula. We started her on cereal this past Sunday. I'll post the video soon. :) She also has her first tooth! She went through a little fussy period last week and then Monday I felt in her mouth and there it was! The second one isn't far behind. She has a pretty massive bump in there just waiting to break through.

She still loves to watch Xander. She smiles when he comes in the room. Sometimes his loud shrieks and outbursts startle her, but it doesn't seem to bother her too much. He can make her laugh like nobody else.  It's so cute.

Just this week she's started really preferring me to anyone else. Even when David holds her, she looks around the room until she finds me. She won't take her eyes off of me if I'm in the same room with her. She also doesn't like me to leave the room. She'll cry now if I leave, even if nothing's wrong. I feel it..I know it's coming...the "separation anxiety" stage...aka, "Mommy can never have a moment alone" stage, lol.

Her hair is really starting to grow. She has a lot more than Xander did at this age. It's lightening up, too. Of course, I've posted enough about hair recently. :)

She's still an absolute delight! I just love her to pieces and I feel so blessed to have such a sweet girl!!







Sucking on that bottom lip





A new friend from GG.

I like to sit!!

Daddy just walked in and grabbed her attention.

She loves her daddy!!! 
Oh boy!! It's Daddy!!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Library stories

These videos share great stories about the Charlotte Mecklenburg library and what we're doing to make a difference in our community.

What great stories can you share about your library and library experiences?